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What Happened when he met his Natrual Mother

This Little boy he seems to recall after pursuing many other Avenues, including bumping into a Reporter in the streets of Adelaide and asking him where the Electoral Department was as he was searching for his Biological Parents By this time of his life, The Little Boy was a Teenager/Adult and had collected non identifying information about his Journey and his Carers which included his Biological Mother. Documents available for viewing real soon. It was one afternoon, The Little Boy was still residing at his Second Adopted Parents. He decided to go to the phone box and ring every single person in the phone book with the same surname as his Biological Mother. (When the Little Boys first Adoption was discharged, he was given back his Biological Mothers Surname). He had an A4 piece of paper briefly stating from The Government his Biological Mothers age religion etc. The Little Boy even took a stool to the phone box assuming he would be their for a while. Probably about after Ten calls or so, reading this information to complete strangers hoping that something my click with them. We'll it did. He started talking to this Older Lady who thought The Little Boy might belong to one of her daughters. Sounds strange, but this Lady was Seperated from her Husband and her children well five or so of them didn't have anything to do with her. They all lived with her ex-Husband. After chatting with her for a while, The Little Boy arranged to meet with her to see whether the Possibility of him being her Grandson was possible. The Little Boy and the Lady did meet up. This Lady lived in the suburbs. She was either Seperated or divorced with two of her Children being in contact with her. The lady and The Little Boy were convinced that one of her daughters could be his Mother. The Little Boy was so excited. Later on The Little Boy remembers, and diarises his First meeting with both his Natrual Mother and his Grandmother which will also be available for viewing soon. The Lady gave The Little Boy the name of One of her daughters whom she thought could be The Little Boys Mother and where he could find her. At the time she was a shop-owner with her partner. The Little Boy rings this lady and Introduces himself to her. After a very brief Introduction basically The Little Boy telling this lady she maybe his Mother, they organise to meet. They both Organise to meet at her shop. The Little Boy, by this time was so excited,scared and really didn't know what was going to happen. He at some point told his Second Adopted Parents he may have found his Mum. He jumped on a Bus and arrived at this Lady's shop. On first entering the Shop, The Little Boy Introduced himself to a Man behind the Counter. The shop was busy, he was a bit stand offish but told the Lady He was there. The first thing This Lady said to the Little Boy was “ I thought you were born before my daughter " The Little Boy remembers a wow feeling, like what is that Lady Talking about. The Little Boy did write notes on when he met his Biological Mother which will soon be available for viewing. Actual Notes Taken Cont : 1995 When he meets his Mum and Sisters. He knows she Loves him even though she doesn't Express it Notes taken in 1995 by The Little Boy, now a Thirty year Old Man. He Continues to write in 1995 : Page 7 Paragraph 7 Even though she doesn't express it, I know she loves me a lot. I go there every Christmas, and try and get there every Sunday for the Family Barbecue. She really finds it hard I believe to express the way she feels, but she does it other ways, like The Family Barbecue, and knitting jumpers etc for my daughter and always remembering my Birthday and my daughters Birthday. There's just so many thoughtful ways she tries to let us know that she loves us The little Boy writes, She's a beautiful Woman who now I think am getting to know her, I feel as though now I can talk to her like Mother and Son, but we've got along way to go . ( Please remember this was in 1995 ) It certainly was not like that at all The Little Boy writes : The little Boy continued to write saying, As far as I know I have two other Sisters, as I mentioned before _______ the youngest one who I get along with heaps a very special person. She was one of my bridesmaids in my wedding which was very special to me. My Eldest Sister couldn't come because at the time her boyfriend didn't like me, and now she has split with him. Page 7 last Paragraph ..... If you remember, I mentioned the fact that when I first met Mum, she said She thought I was born before her eldest daughter, well sure enough it wasn't me there was another boy Adopted out by the same Mother. Community Welfare just recently contacted me and said you have a Brother and he wants to meet you. I was pretty excited and both my eldest Sister and I have met him on a few Occassions but really haven't kept in touch. I think my other Sister has met him once but we didn't I suppose get to close to him because, well who knows why. My Eldest Sister when she got drunk one day mentioned it to Mum, but there was a blank look ?

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