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Saturday, May 31, 2014

What does The Little Boy Remember about being with his first Adoptive Parents.

THE LITLLE BOY CONTINUED -

What does The Little Boy remember about being with the first Adoptive Parents?

He does Remember his Little Red car as previously mentioned. Driving up and down the driveway, parking etc and then of course visiting the Old Lady next door.

The Little Boy also remembers -

Sitting at the adjoining table as mentioned in the Affidavit
Spreading Faeces all over their wall
Being made to stand in a corner for extended lengths of time with his hands behind his back
Where they lived
A very vague description Of how they looked
Playing with his two adoptive sisters
He thinks he remembers an animal, bird - cat pet
Their Lounge room and where he was made to stand for extended times

The Little Boy does not remember feelings of what he knows now of LOVE,
FEELING CARED FOR, BELONGING. Not that the Little Boy Remembers standing at the window fully dressed staring out. Maybe he wanted to get out.

However before we go onto The Little Boys Life after he was taken by a Social worker and Placed in Glandore Boys Home, and became the PROPERTY OF THE DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL WELFARE AND ABORIGINAL AFFAIRS,

As The Little Boy nurtured into an adult, he went looking for his first Adoptive Parents just to see whether he could possibly have some closure to many feelings and questions he had after reading the Affidavit and of course having a few vague memory's as described above.

The Little Boy located his first Adoptive Parents still residing in the same House in South Australia. 
The Little Boys Visit to the first Adoptive Parents ( memoirs and notes of what took place) when first locating them again after so many years will be a very Interesting read.

2 comments:

  1. Just goes to show,
    How Damaging adoption is ...
    For Children and families.

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