Letters of concern he wrote to the Church started in 1995

Not Welcome letter from Anglican Church.

Arriving at an Anglican Church in his City.

Arriving at an Anglican Church, looking for assistance! He Arrived at An Anglican Church in the middle of the City with his first and probably serious Girlfriend, requiring Accommodation and food Assistance. This was in the Early Eighties. They were running a little Coffee Shop and very few people around when first arriving. The few that were around seemed quite friendly and welcoming although I did feel more comfortable their than my Girlfriend. I was very Happy I recall when walking inside the church and seeing a Piano and Organ. It was a very Old big Organ which didn't sound great but it wasn't bad for its age. My girlfriend and the time and I were looking for somewhere to live. I can't really remember exactly how, but we were introduced to “ Church Leader “ who did assist us with finding boarding accommodation in a House in the suburbs with a male. Can't really remember his name. We moved into this accommodation and we then needed Furniture. We brought a very cheap bed for our room and we were set, so we thought. Over the next few months or so, my girlfriend and I were not getting on that well. We did split and she went on her own way. I was always just hangin at this Church during my days, playing the piano, assisting them with running the coffee shop. I felt I had a purpose and it felt like a warm place to be. I also started to play the piano for their Sunday morning Church Services. The Residing Minister also at the time appeared to be caring and a lovely man. He was very appreciative of the Piano music for his services. Probably a month went by and , whilst hangin around at the Church, another man was starting to hang around a bit. He was a big dude, with Tattoos everywhere, always wearing black. I noticed that he was always sitting around, smoking drinking coffee and chatting to people. This man appeared intimidating, and at times acted accordingly. I also started to say hi to this bloke , although I felt at the time, I was the one intiating the conversation. As time went by, it seemed as though more people were starting to talk and also pray with this man. He had a very caring nature, so it seemed and we actually became quite close. I remember him often coming around to where I was boarding, in the late hours, early morning wanting to go for drives, visiting people often talking about God and how his experience with God had changed him. He was actually quite inspiring, and the way he somehow use to tell these stories about his life were really quite heart breaking. But it seemed God had done this amazing transformation to this man. I remember him often saying that if I had met him on the streets, I would have been one of his lackys. I laughed it of at the time and continued to form a friendly relationship with him. He assisted in me buying an old black VW, he also had one and somehow convinced me it was a good buy. He later went onto take parts of my car, exchange this and that with his car, alot was going on, but for some reason , I trusted this man that he knew what he was doing. XxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxX From him first arriving, the Church seemingly became quite busy. By this time, it almost seemed as though the actual Minister gave this man Authority or, mmm something happened that he was intiating alot of good projects around the church. The Coffee shop was getting busier, cleaning up the Church Rectory, to be used for Homeless people. He seemed to be doing good things. By this time, I had met his wife and Family, living in a small flat in the suburbs, alot of people were basically just doing whatever this man said. I remember one of this man's fund raisers for the church was a car Rally. He encouraged people to donate money, their time walking around the suburbs, encouraging people to buy a magnet ,advertising their business. People actually did. I was one of the people who would walk around the suburbs, with his daughter and a couple more other people, trying to get sponsors. The Church was getting busy, and I think media were actually advertising the event, local radio host's cutting the ribbon, the Rally begun and all the cars had their magnets on, and everyone arrived and could camp at the destination in the hills. So by this time since this man arrived, the church which basically had about twenty or so Elderly people attending Sunday Mornings, with me playing the piano to a very busy place. It was interesting watching the place really get busy. People were donating their time, skills to assist in doing up both the Rectory and the Old House on the other side of the Church, this was used as a women's shelter intially, and then a Family moved in.

His Search started. He writes in 1995

Letter to Supposed bio Mother "Updated as I have the Energy "

A LETTER THAT SHE WILL NOT READ, as she did not read her Eldest daughter's letter so many years ago with her feelings! Thirty five years is long enough! I will be writing this letter and uploading every page over the next week.

Picture whilst at Second Adoptive Home. Playing 🎹 Baptist Church.

FORM 5A CONSENT TO ORDER FOR ADOPTION. Adoption of Children Act 1925 - 1943

TWO FORMS SIGNED BY SUPPOSED SAME BIO MOTHER! She says to the Little Boy on their first meet, " Oh, I thought you were born before my Daughter " He learns later in life, their is another boy, and the bio mums older Sister also adopted out a boy ,the same year 1965 and possibly another! Is he really her Son? It explains why she can't remember and certainly still cannot identify either boys Father! February 1962

May 1965

FORM 17A Certificate of Identification of a child

Director of Community Welfare : hereby certify that TO THE BEST OF MY KNOWLEDGE AND BELIEF, the child named in the consent SIGNED by JUDITH LORRAINE BRAND ....is the child placed for Adoption.

Tafe Assessment ( Journal FINDING MY NATRUAL MOTHER )

This is an extract of an assessment The little boy wrote, whilst at Tafe studying .

Adoption Papers for all to read.

This Little Boy: Thislittleboy.blogspot.com

This Little Boy: Thislittleboy.blogspot.com

Questions and Answers

This Little Boy: Age of One Year, Admitted to Adelaide Children's Hospital FREQUENT BRUISING from First Adoptive Parents.

This Little Boy: Age of One Year, Admitted to Adelaide Children's Hospital FREQUENT BRUISING from First Adoptive Parents.

Age of One Year, Admitted to Adelaide Children's Hospital FREQUENT BRUISING from First Adoptive Parents.

The Little boy has No History of Past life at the age of 6 after being placed in State Care, according to the Adelaide Children's Hospital.

Actual Notes Taken Cont : 1995 When he meets his Mum and Sisters.

Notes taken in 1995 by The Little Boy, now a Thirty year Old Man.

He Continues to write in 1995 :

Page 7 Paragraph 7

Even though she doesn't express it, I know she loves me a lot. 

I go there every Christmas, and try and get there every Sunday for the Family Barbecue. 

She really finds it hard I believe to express the way she feels, but she does it other ways, like

The Family Barbecue, and knitting jumpers etc for my daughter and always remembering my

Birthday and my daughters Birthday.

There's just so many thoughtful ways she tries to let us know that she loves us The little Boy writes,

She's a beautiful Woman who now I think am getting to know her, I feel as though now I can talk to her like Mother and Son, but we've got along way to go . ( Please remember this was in 1995 )

It certainly was not like that at all The Little Boy writes :

The little Boy continued to write saying, As far as I know I have two other Sisters, as I mentioned before _______ the youngest one who I get along with heaps a very special person.

She was one of my bridesmaids in my wedding which was very special to me.

My Eldest Sister couldn't come because at the time her boyfriend didn't like me, and now she has split with him.

Page 7 last Paragraph .....

If you remember, I mentioned the fact that when I first met Mum, she said She thought I was born before her eldest daughter, well sure enough it wasn't me there was another boy Adopted out by the same Mother.

Community Welfare just recently contacted me and said you have a Brother and he wants to meet you. 

I was pretty excited and both my eldest Sister and I have met him on a few Occassions but really haven't kept in touch. I think my other Sister has met him once but we didn't I suppose get to close to him because, well who knows why.

My Eldest Sister when she got drunk one day mentioned it to Mum, but there was a blank look ?

Actual Notes Taken Cont. 1995 when he meets Mum and Sisters.

Page 7 - paragraph 3 

We had a Plan, we would just go to Mums Place one day after the two Sisters got home from School

And just sit in the Lounge and when they walked in the door  just tell them who I was.

This plan went well and I think the Sisters were pretty Confused to know that they all of a Sudden had 

A Brother.   

Everything was going well having a chat etc until Mum walked through the door and saw us all sitting there talking to each other.

You could feel the Air, it was terrible. From that day on Mum the Eldest Sister didn't get on at all.

She was very mad with us.

At this Time Mum and her Boyfriend owned a shop on Henley Beach Rd, and my Eldest Sister and I suppose tried to have some sort of Relationship with our Mother but she wasn't going to give in, 

We really made her upset.

After a long period of time of me and my eldest Sister building some sort of relationship together,

But this was difficult because of her boyfriend being Jealous Mum eventually gave in and let her Guard down I suppose and I'm Happy to say that now we have a very close Relationship, well as close as it can be for the time being. ( Remember this was written in 1995 )

Actuall Notes The Little Boy took In 1995 Meeting Mother and Sisters.

Page 6 -   Last paragraph on page:

The Little Boy/ Adult writes : I think now what I'll go back to is when I first met my Natrual Mother.

I told you before when I first met her, it was very difficult to talk to her. 

I Remember one Comment she made to me on my first meeting was, I thought you were born before ________ . Being her Oldest daughter.

I thought at that time it was pretty strange that a Woman couldn't remember when and how many Children she had, any way I spent a bit of time with her, and the next thing I remember is eating with her at the Pizza Hut after her picking me up from my second Adopted Parents.

The next step was to meet ________ My Sister, who at that stage, I believed through the Non Identifying Information thought that we had the same Natrual Father, but have since learnt, we have different Fathers.

I met __________ who at that stage had split up from her then Boyfriend and was living at her Pops 

Place, our Grandfather.  It was pretty good meeting her, finally finding someone who was a bit like me .

Through a number of outings and just basically trying to get to know each other, decided to let our other Sisters know that they had a Brother. 

Mum didn't want us to but we decided that they had a right to know, not really thinking about mums feelings at all.

What Happened when The Little Boy met his Biological Mother

This Little boy he seems to recall after pursuing many other Avenues, including bumping into a Reporter in the streets of Adelaide and asking him where the Electoral Department was as he was searching for his Biological Parents By this time of his life, The Little Boy was a Teenager/Adult and had collected non identifying information about his Journey and his Carers which included his Biological Mother. Documents available for viewing real soon. It was one afternoon, The Little Boy was still residing at his Second Adopted Parents. He decided to go to the phone box and ring every single person in the phone book with the same surname as his Biological Mother. (When the Little Boys first Adoption was discharged, he was given back his Biological Mothers Surname). He had an A4 piece of paper briefly stating from The Government his Biological Mothers age religion etc. The Little Boy even took a stool to the phone box assuming he would be their for a while. Probably about after Ten calls or so, reading this information to complete strangers hoping that something my click with them. We'll it did. He started talking to this Older Lady who thought The Little Boy might belong to one of her daughters. Sounds strange, but this Lady was Seperated from her Husband and her children well five or so of them didn't have anything to do with her. They all lived with her ex-Husband. After chatting with her for a while, The Little Boy arranged to meet with her to see whether the Possibility of him being her Grandson was possible. The Little Boy and the Lady did meet up. This Lady lived in the suburbs. She was either Seperated or divorced with two of her Children being in contact with her. The lady and The Little Boy were convinced that one of her daughters could be his Mother. The Little Boy was so excited. Later on The Little Boy remembers, and diarises his First meeting with both his Natrual Mother and his Grandmother which will also be available for viewing soon. The Lady gave The Little Boy the name of One of her daughters whom she thought could be The Little Boys Mother and where he could find her. At the time she was a shop-owner with her partner. The Little Boy rings this lady and Introduces himself to her. After a very brief Introduction basically The Little Boy telling this lady she maybe his Mother, they organise to meet. They both Organise to meet at her shop. The Little Boy, by this time was so excited,scared and really didn't know what was going to happen. He at some point told his Second Adopted Parents he may have found his Mum. He jumped on a Bus and arrived at this Lady's shop. On first entering the Shop, The Little Boy Introduced himself to a Man behind the Counter. The shop was busy, he was a bit stand offish but told the Lady He was there. The first thing This Lady said to the Little Boy was “ I thought you were born before my daughter " The Little Boy remembers a wow feeling, like what is that Lady Talking about. The Little Boy did write notes on when he met his Biological Mother which will soon be available for viewing.

REVIEW OF THE LITTLE BOYS JOURNEY SO FAR ......

The Little Boys Journey started ........

- Given away my Biological Mother who had an 18 Month Old Daughter at the time she kept in the Mid Sixties.

- His Mother was Single and living with her Father and other Brothers and Sisters.

- The Little Boys Biological Father according to Biological Mother was 25 Yrs of Age at the time of his Birth. He was also the Father of her 18 Month Old Daughter according to the Biological Mother.

- The Mother stated it appeared she was going to Marry the Father. 

- His Journey continues and he was Placed with his first Adoptive Parents in June 1965. 

- The Adoptive Parents had two Other Adopted Daughters aged 5 1/2 and 6 Months.  

- As Time Progressed The Adoptive Parents were finding Increasing Difficulty in being able to fulfil The Little Boys needs. According to Government Records The Adoptive Parents found that they could not adequately cope with demands And behaviour of children around The Little Boys age. 

- The Adopted Parents applied to The Courts for a discharge and Filed supporting Evidence to support there Application. - The Little Boy was then Placed in the Custody of THE DIRECTOR OF SOCIAL WELFARE AND ABORIGINAL AFFAIRS? - Glandore  Boys Home was The Little Boys New Home for a while. - The Little Boys Journey continues.